Thats what I'm saying, its a respect thing. I have nothing against the BOPs. They are a large, well organized group that executes missions very well. I hate going against them, because most times I'm alone, or with only a couple other defenders. The same with some of the missions GHI runs. He gets a good turn out and easily overwhelm a base.
But thats where things could change. Don't gang the defenders. I'm not saying if they have 3 you only send 3, but don't send your whole crew to kill a few guys, give them a chance, and they will keep coming back.
In 1 vs 1, even 2 vs 1, ASK before you dive in, maybe the guys are having fuun, some guys like being out numbered, give them a chance to have their fun too. There is always another guy upping, go kill him.
Sure furballs are different, its a free for all, and you can't expect much other than you dieing sooner or later.
If the big squads start leading by example, and those posting missions lead by example, and those that read the boards start leading by example, maybe just maybe, a little more fun might crop up in this game for everyone.