Originally posted by Maverick
I'd rather do neither. Trouble is easier to avoid than deal with if you are aware of your surroundings. Prudent choices in where to go and what to do coupled with situational awareness have more to do with staying safe than pure chance.
If trouble finds me anyhow, I'd rather be able to deal with it just once. I've gone in harms way before and no longer go looking for it.
Hi Maverick,
This has always been my way of staying out of harm's way... to use my intellect and SA and common sense.
Even to the point of driving around at the mall till I find a parking spot that is highly visable... and wont shop after dark where I have to find and get into my car in the dark in an obscure outdoor parking spot or any parking garage.
I admit... thinking about being armed as a result of this thread got me thinking in a fear-liberated way ...a personally empowered way, and that felt good in ways hard to explain. I have only felt that way when under the protection of an able-bodied man at my side.
Thinking about it also gave rise to the anger I have felt for being forced to always look over my shoulder when in public or even using the laundry room in my building, not that I have any valid reason whatsoever to fear any of my neighbors, per se.
It seriously sucks and it's repressive and I hate it... makes me want to let the first guy to grab me have the full clip to make up for a lifetime of necessary fear... or tase him till the battery is drained.
I see that as dangerous thinking... sort of like what Charles Bronson felt when he went out looking for muggers to deal out justice western style to while armed in the movie "Death Wish."
That kind of thinking leads to rage crimes where the victim becomes the attacker with levels of force far exceeding the merits of the situation and could very likely land the victim in prison and the attacker, dead.
Not sure if I am being clear as to my feelings... but I tried.
TIGERESS
Edit: while looking for cases where a crime in progress victim shoots the attacker/s, I came across this: A new law that just went into effect in September allows Texans to defend themselves with deadly force in their homes, cars and work places. The Castle Doctrine removes the requirement that a person must attempt to retreat before using deadly force. (from -->
http://abclocal.go.com/ktrk/story?section=news/local&id=5793118 )
Obviously, knowing and obeying the gun laws of the state you are in is extremely important in order to stay out of trouble.