Oogly, take from an old guy....women are the evil in the world. Now mind you I mean no disrespect to women in general but you will come into contact with women during your life that you will "think" your in love with that will screw you over in a heart beat, or simply drive you up the wall once you get to know them.
Best advice I can give you is start looking for anouther girl ASAP. Don't let the ex, or anyone else see you down about it. If she has burned you, the best way to get beyond that is not to care too much about it and move on like a man. Just COWBOY UP!!!!!!
Kid I know. I've been there and done that and have the t-shirts to prove it. Wait until you've been married for 12 years and one day your wife tells you to pack up your things and leave because "she isn't happy anymore"....then you'll KNOW what hurt really is when you leave your house, your kids, and your life behind you to start over again.
It's been 2 years for me at this point but I'm living my life how I want too and I have a bunch of new friends I hang with, and in all honesty, life is pretty good right now.
Just think positive and you'll be OK. If it didn't work out, then it wasn't ment to work out. Move on to better things.