Originally posted by B@tfinkV
only if you like the kind of girl that goes for jerks..(but if they are hot then its fair)
The really, REALLY hot ones always dig the jerks.
What I mean by "jerk" is more "cocky" and somewhat rude to the girl. Dont' go fawning over her, and put her on a high horse. Make her think you doing her a favor dating her as opposed to vs. versa. SHE is the "lucky" one is how ya' gota come off.
Granted, once you are in a relationship with them you can get all lovey lovey, but for the casual date or just in general, "cocky" and or kinda a jerk almost always is the way to go.
If you are nice to 'em, they wanna be your "friend". If ya' treat 'em kinda like garbage, they wanna sleep w/ you.
Go figure.
Not to say nice guys don't get the girls. Or all girls like jerks. But on the whole this is how it works.
I once worked for AOL @ a corporate call center. There was this one girl who was by far the hottest girl @ work. (no contest) And she made it abuntantly clear I had no shot with her when we 1st met. (picture a younger Jennifer Lopez w/ a better tookus)
Skip forward a few months and a lot of us are @ a bar after work and I started ripping on her pretty hard. Not enough to make her cry or anything, but you could tell she wasn't used to any guy givin' her crap like I was doing.
From that night forward she was always stopping by my desk to say "hi" and started asking me out for lunch. I played hard to get and always turned her down. That only made her try harder. I doubt many guys ever turned her down for anything.
I never stopped ripping on her either, but I changed it to a more flirtatious manner.
She showed up @ my apt. one night completly wasted (dunno how she found out where I lived.... STALKER!) and wanting me to take her home. She was WAY too drunk to drive so I took her home and she basically threw herself @ me. I turned her down acting like a NICE GUY! I will admitt to a moment of weakness (or twelve) when she started stripping and was almost naked, but I will never sleep with a girl (for the 1st time anyway) when they are that drunk.
The next day and from that day forward she shunned me and I actually wanted to start dating her. She was prob. just super embarresed. Serves me right for being the "nice guy" and not taking advantage of her. Not that I would change my decision of course.
Oh well, at least I got the memory of her topless in a thong jumping up and down screaming "WHY WON'T YOU SLEEP WITH ME!!"
