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Offline uberhun

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« Reply #30 on: December 22, 2007, 08:20:12 AM »
Jerry Springer thread...........:lol
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« Reply #31 on: December 22, 2007, 09:06:51 AM »
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The first question which wasn't asked until now is, who did you find out this news from Oogly?  Did she tell you or did your friends?  Did she say she liked everyone but you?


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Actually, she said she had told my friend (who she doesn't like) the 3 guys she had liked...  It slipped out, so I asked her who they were, and she said she wouldn't tell...  "but don't go pestering mike about it either, because I know he'll slip"  

Which was a stupid move... I didn't even know mike knew who she liked.

So I called mike, asked him a couple times, and he caved in.

2 of them are my best friends, and 1 of them is okay (but I can pwn him at guitar... not that that means much)  

I find it coincidence though...  All 3 of them are in her class, and they have the same exact personality as me.  But they don't even like her!  

It all just seems so un-fair, I get a different house, different lunch period, and different class than her.  

She's very nice, and she feels so bad about this whole situation.  She said if I actually talked to her every now and then, and if what I describe myself to her is true, then she would deffinately like me...

But I don't have that chance :furious
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« Reply #32 on: December 22, 2007, 09:16:34 AM »
I feel your pain Oogly.
Last year I had been going out with someone since August and we both liked each other. Went on a lot of dates and stuff. We had been called a great couple and such.

Then around halloween last year, I made the stupidest decision of my life.
I was being a jerk, after talking to all my friends and such, on how i'm so lucky to have Jade (my girlfriend).
I kept going on and accidently offended one of my Jewish friends, who was close friends to Jade. (I forgave him).

Anyway, the next day I walk into school and go to my locker and Jade never shows up (she came to my locker everyday). I was thinking "maybe she's absent". Well, turns out that night, she decided to break up with me, for my remarks to her friend, who I apoligized to. What was unlucky is that she broke up with me the day of my sisters birthday.

Still pissed at myself for being a jerk.

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« Reply #33 on: December 22, 2007, 09:17:19 AM »
Happiness comes from within. No other person can make you happy; first you have to love the person you have become/made yourself.

After that, relationships are no problem.
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« Reply #34 on: December 22, 2007, 09:37:27 AM »
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Actually, she said she had told my friend (who she doesn't like) the 3 guys she had liked...  It slipped out, so I asked her who they were, and she said she wouldn't tell...  "but don't go pestering mike about it either, because I know he'll slip"  

Which was a stupid move... I didn't even know mike knew who she liked.

So I called mike, asked him a couple times, and he caved in.

2 of them are my best friends, and 1 of them is okay (but I can pwn him at guitar... not that that means much)  

I find it coincidence though...  All 3 of them are in her class, and they have the same exact personality as me.  But they don't even like her!  

It all just seems so un-fair, I get a different house, different lunch period, and different class than her.  

She's very nice, and she feels so bad about this whole situation.  She said if I actually talked to her every now and then, and if what I describe myself to her is true, then she would deffinately like me...

But I don't have that chance :furious



I have to ask....if you "do not have the chance" , then what's the problem?  Is it the not being in the same class that is causing the problem?  What about after school? What if she did say it was you she liked?  Would you skip your classes and sneak into hers to talk to her and be with her?  Everything you describe seems to revolve around school time...in that case you should be concentrating on school instead of who this chick likes.
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« Reply #35 on: December 22, 2007, 09:41:20 AM »
No,  what I mean is...

If I were in her class, I would have more chances to see her, be with her, and talk to her.  After school she's always doing something like swimming or gymnastics.  I'm really shy around her, she's so beautiful I can't speak in complete sentences around her.  If I were in her class she would see the true, sarcastic side of me.
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« Reply #36 on: December 22, 2007, 09:48:59 AM »
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No,  what I mean is...

If I were in her class, I would have more chances to see her, be with her, and talk to her.  After school she's always doing something like swimming or gymnastics.  I'm really shy around her, she's so beautiful I can't speak in complete sentences around her.  If I were in her class she would see the true, sarcastic side of me.


Ok, then what?  If she likes you in class, what then?  She's busy after school so what happens when she likes you in class only....where does it go?  You're obsessed with this situation (not necessarily the girl).  It's something you want but cannot have...that's the driving force.  Learn to control that and you will be a lot better off.  Chalk it all up to life experience and move on.
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« Reply #37 on: December 22, 2007, 09:50:50 AM »
Yep. Once you get older, you will look back on it and think "boy, that was stupid"
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« Reply #38 on: December 22, 2007, 09:54:19 AM »
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Oh yeah, and Lute is right...be a jerk and they'll love ya...even the nice gals...it just works out that way...because being a jerk is associated with confidence and confidence is sexy.  So you can either be a jerk or just be really confident...either one will work, but you won't show any sign of confidence if you are stuck on her and acting like you are co-dependent.


Sorry ~ just not true in all cases.  Being a jerk is mistakenly associated with having confidence.  As soon as she sees that 'the jerk' is there because of a lack of confidence ~ the boot.

Better:  True confidence without being a jerk.
*edit* you've got to back up the arrogance with substance ~ that works.
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« Reply #39 on: December 22, 2007, 10:00:45 AM »
Don't be a puss.  Take lutes advice and get yourself a robe and wizard hat and talk her into cybering you.  Google up Bloodninja , he'll show you how its done.
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« Reply #40 on: December 22, 2007, 10:22:28 AM »
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The really, REALLY hot ones always dig the jerks.

What I mean by "jerk" is more "cocky" and somewhat rude to the girl.  Dont' go fawning over her, and put her on a high horse.  Make her think you doing her a favor dating her as opposed to vs. versa.  SHE is the "lucky" one is how ya' gota come off.

Granted, once you are in a relationship with them you can get all lovey lovey, but for the casual date or just in general, "cocky" and or kinda a jerk almost always is the way to go.

If you are nice to 'em, they wanna be your "friend".  If ya' treat 'em kinda like garbage, they wanna sleep w/ you.

Go figure.

Not to say nice guys don't get the girls.  Or all girls like jerks.  But on the whole this is how it works.

I once worked for AOL @ a corporate call center.  There was this one girl who was by far the hottest girl @ work.  (no contest)  And she made it abuntantly clear I had no shot with her when we 1st met.  (picture a younger Jennifer Lopez w/ a better tookus)

Skip forward a few months and a lot of us are @ a bar after work and I started ripping on her pretty hard.  Not enough to make her cry or anything, but you could tell she wasn't used to any guy givin' her crap like I was doing.

From that night forward she was always stopping by my desk to say "hi" and started asking me out for lunch.  I played hard to get and always turned her down.  That only made her try harder.  I doubt many guys ever turned her down for anything.

I never stopped ripping on her either, but I changed it to a more flirtatious manner.

She showed up @ my apt. one night completly wasted (dunno how she found out where I lived.... STALKER!) and wanting me to take her home.  She was WAY too drunk to drive so I took her home and she basically threw herself @ me.  I turned her down acting like a NICE GUY!  I will admitt to a moment of weakness (or twelve) when she started stripping and was almost naked, but I will never sleep with a girl (for the 1st time anyway) when they are that drunk.

The next day and from that day forward she shunned me and I actually wanted to start dating her.  She was prob. just super embarresed.  Serves me right for being the "nice guy" and not taking advantage of her.  Not that I would change my decision of course.  

Oh well, at least I got the memory of her topless in a thong jumping up and down screaming "WHY WON'T YOU SLEEP WITH ME!!"



Lived this one myself. Women:rolleyes:
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« Reply #41 on: December 22, 2007, 12:02:10 PM »
Oogly, take Toad's advice.
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« Reply #42 on: December 22, 2007, 12:18:03 PM »
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No,  what I mean is...

If I were in her class, I would have more chances to see her, be with her, and talk to her.  After school she's always doing something like swimming or gymnastics.  I'm really shy around her, she's so beautiful I can't speak in complete sentences around her.  If I were in her class she would see the true, sarcastic side of me.


Get....A .....GRIP!!
   Pick out the ugliest girl in class, put the blocks to her, and tell the prom queen to screw off.

Hey, at least it can only get better from there.:D
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« Reply #43 on: December 22, 2007, 11:04:06 PM »
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Bring the pics back  lol...the old avatars were better  :)


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« Reply #44 on: December 22, 2007, 11:05:44 PM »
Can we get an "under 18 - JR ROTC Club" forum? ;)
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