I have yet to have someone complain when I ask them if they wan't me to stay out, or if they need help.
Probably one of three want help.
I don't expect anyone else to do that. I figure I have to play the way I want and other folks will play the way they want.
If they happen to ask me first while I'm in a nice knife fight, I take it as a bonus but I sure don't expect it.
As one who also flies a midwar bird, I know that's my choice and because of it I'll get out run, or guys will race in from on high while I'm fighting at times.
In the end, I can only control me

Batfink, you are wrong to say go to the arena where your plane belongs. For me the challenge in LW is beating better planes then my midwar bird. I like fighting from the disadvantage.
If that's what he wants to do, more power to him