I have been chalenged and have given challenges to the DA, I have won and lost, but the one thing that seems to remain constant for me is this:
No matter why the challenge was issued or how hot the tempers have flared, during the DA session (and after) both parties have come out with a bit more respect and even comradrie, and the original "reason" for the fight is lost.
All of a sudden we are sharing advice and even get/give a when seen in the MA.
If your having trouble with the way things are 'going down' for you or with certain others, just remember.....
"If you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got".......
all, good luck, see you in the air and all that nicety stuff