Yes it is tough... That's what makes it such a great game to play..
I agree with others. I started just over a year ago. I read everything I could find on the trainers page. I read for over 2 weeks before even firing up an engine on line.
Get with a trainer is my best advise. Here is a direct link to the page you need to contact a trainer
Trainer Roster They are some super guys. To get the most out of their time, listen and do what they say. Don't waste their time asking for cheat codes, or other such nonsense. You will still die a lot, but you will at least start the learning process. Since they are busy, come by the training arena and ask for help on the basics. Sometimes you might be surprised how many will jump in and assist.
It takes time to get good. After a year, I still feel like a noob..
Welcome to your new addiction...