oddly.. the ones most concerned about how "manly" it is.. or even using the word.. are the princesses who played dungeon and dragons.
Now I am told that DD is simply 9th century your-0-peean history relived.
Now, I enjoyed the ivanho horse and sword books.. That did not mean that I would enjoy sitting on a sawhorse in a basement with like minded teens with a pot on my head and a broomstick "lance".
fairyland and dragonland was just not some place I wanted to be.
as for mg42.. I did not say that your anime addiction was not manly.. I said that it was akin to pedophilia which.. I suppose.. does amount to the same thing now that you bring it up.
lazs
Allot of thought wasted on something you purport to not care about.
Tolkien was interested in that time frame(he was an expert on the languages of that era), invented his own language for a elven race(in the 1920s), then invented a history and world for the language to exist in(in the 30s). Then wrote the book the lord of the rings during WW2 pretty much.
People liked his books(not you apparently) and wondered what it would be like to exist in such a world, Gygax wondered the same thing and came up with a game system to try and capture the experience. A whole genre of games evolved, spread to computer games and continues to this day in hundreds of different rules systems and for many different environments.
There are Role Playing games for Science Fiction, Vietnam, the old west(The Duke would approve of this I suppose) and everything else. Its just a gaming model where N players have one person they control in a world and that person can progress and become more capable within the rules for the game. 1 Player controls everything else in existence. And thats it. Nothing mysterios or hateful, just for the time a very different concept of a game that has now become almost universal with computers.
You expect to play a computer game and have all the bad guys controlled by the PC or a server, Doom and all its desendents do this, Most not online flight sims do this etc.
In the mid 1970s nothing did this. Gygax made up rules for a person to act as that computer that controls all the bad guys and non player good guys.
Thats all it is.