hon·or –noun
1. honesty, fairness, or integrity in one's beliefs and actions: a man of honor.
There are very few actions in the game that are without honor. One would be spying. Killing your enemy by whatever means does not show a lack of honor. Complaining on 200 or through PM that you were killed is without honor.
The solutions are simple:
1. If you don't want to loose because your opponent is in some late war uber ride, take out a late war uber ride.
2. If you don't want to be picked, take off at a rear base and get some alt.
3. If you don't want to be horded, work on your SA.
But don't cry about it when you get vulched, picked, horded, hoed or whatever.
About the BnZers: I read a book by a P51 pilot (can't remember which one now) in which he stated that the first rule for fighter pilots was: One pass, haul prettythang. You see, in real life, pilots who got into turn fights tended not to make it back to base. Not always, but it was a risky proposition. A turn fight, even if you were the victor, left you low and slow, easy pickings for someone else. I believe the same is true in AH.
If you want to turn fight, fine, go ahead. Just don't cry when someone picks you in the MA. If you want a pure fight go to the DA.