Aww somebody is a little POed. Its okay you have to name call and bash people to get your gollys off. So what Im only 21. Are you mad because you cant be that yound again?
Never called you a name, dude. I just said you were a nobody.
First off, let me get one thing straight. I'm not mad at you. I was frustrated, yeah, wondering who in the hell would act the way you do even after I bent over backwards to try and help you out by bringing fresh blood into the AvA. I spent forever trying to figure it out, thinking you were probbably just a little sociopath or something, maybe even have a few mental health problems. But the more I tried to help, the more I tried to figure it all out, and the more I tried to explain the situation on the allied side, the more belligerent you became.
Then I learned your age.
A little background information- I owned and ran an outdoor lighting franchise for a number of years, and your age group was generally the guys I'd pick for hiring for labor. Good paying work, perfect for college students. Not hard labor at all, involved some basic math for voltage drop, a good feel for a shovel to dig slit trenches, and various other electrical things- wiring transformers and the like.
I soon ran into problems- not the least of which was attitudes just like yours, and work ethics that were really the lowest I've ever seen. They all lived with their parents ('cept for one, he lived in an apartment with like 4 friends), couldn't hold a job, and wanted nothing more then a paycheck so they could go smoke weed.
One of my guys even got busted with weed on one of my jobsites.
Bottom line- I fired every single one who copped an attitude like that because they weren't good for business, my representation, and they were shoddy in their work. I wound up hiring a friend of my little sister (who was in high school at the time). She begged me to give the kid a shot, so I did, and lo and behold, a light at the tunnel. A 17 year old that really had his sh*t together. Matt was by far the best employee I ever had. It broke my heart to shut down the business and send him on his way, and have served as a reference for him for years as his first boss. Always talk that kid up.
But I digress.
All I see in your banter, posturing, and comms is that dozen or so barely-legal-to-drink kids that thought they had the world on a string, and everybody owed 'em something. The know-it-all kids that I fired without second guessing myself at all.
Just another kid, that's all I'm seeing. What's pissing me off is I wasted so much time and effort to try and help someone who would never ever truly appreciate what I was trying to do, but instead would write off my concerns for "his" arena as "whines".
So, I'm gonna stop doing what I've been doing, and advise others to do the same. You're not about to change the belligerent kid you are on here and in the arena, and I'm not about to expect it. I know better then that. Eventually you may turn a corner somewhere, and I hope to God you do, for your sake. Half the kids I fired are in jail. One of 'em wrote me to thank me for giving him an oppurtunity.
Now keep in mind this may be a gross misjudgement and/or a wrongly placed assumption, but I see what I see- and that's what I meant by the above post.
Take care, dude. I hope to Christ I'm wrong about you.