I try to play the game on the "up and up" Don't fire on HO merges unless fired upon, don't use F3 view in buffs for gunning, only for looking around, don't turn graphics down, don't turn gammas up. I fly for the fight, win loose or draw, that what its all about. If the guy I'm fighting calls "bingo", I'll most likely let him go.
Lame, maybe, but its the way I like to play the game.