alskahawk,
Well this doesn't make the decision to SLI or not to SLI any easier. Have you had a chance to run AH in either mode yet to see how frame rates or mem usage is affected?
I didn't do much other than fly a flight with it in SLI mode. But that was just a quickie. It ran (going from memory here) 250FPS in turns, 300+ strait n level. (this was with a 24 inch monitor) My guess is that with a single card I probably would have ran about 150-250 FPS(vsync forced on). But that is a guess.
After having done two SLI computers. I really think that there are two ways to approach SLI. One; Build the best system with the best components available. Building a top SLI system starts at about 2 grand.
If you already have a system with an SLI board and you can add a second card with no other changes, it may be cost effective. And may keep your system competitive for another year or so. If you have less than a 500 watt PSU don't even consider SLI. Once you start adding components cost runs up quickly especially when your dealing with higher end cards. They are faster but they produce more heat. Removing one 8800GTX dropped the cpu heat by 5 degrees. Not to mention power requirements.
I think its better to build a computer with the best single card you can get. Its just simpler. If its for AH build it single. A top single system will get around 12k 3dmark and cost less than 2 grand. SLI that same system and it should be pushing 14k 3dmark. With the new cards out now 15k? But you can add another grand to the price easily.