However, is it really all that different from asking the police to do it?
Yes- it is a world of difference. The Patriot Guard holding a counter demonstration is more of a peer pressure situation- the Government banning protest is an official edict.
I agree 100% with those of you who say people protesting at funerals are tasteless, despicible, subhuman or whatever other name you wish to call them- I could never imagine being a party to deliberately causing pain to someone who has lost a child, at that most sensitive of time.
It is the worst incarnation of our first amendment rights- which means it is the form of free speech we must protect, as a society, the most.It's easy to defend that which you agree with, because you're thinking with your heart. It's much harder to defend that which you disagree with, because you have to think with your mind.