Yes Bug you can and people did during the war use trim to get out of compression effect. Most trim controls in a/c use basically the same thing a bycicle uses to move, 2 gears and a chain/cable hook up. The sprocket at the trim control is big and the small one is on the actuator. The elevator,aileron and rudders were/are usually direct connections via cables with no mechanical assistance like gear ratios. That's what allowed pilots to overcome the effects of compression, the gearing in the trim system allowed them to move the control surface with the trim tabs while the direct connection to the stick was useless.
LOL Tac, you guys aren't 'boosting' your moves with trim anymore, HTC fixed the trim model so you can't get any more deflection of a control surface than the a/c allowed by using trim. With that said however, it still may not be 'correct'.
All you really are doing is 'relieving' or 'adjusting' your stick forces at a given airspeed when using trim. Say you have your trim set to 3/4 'down trim' and you are at a low airspeed, your joystick input is gonna be erratic and unprecise until you get the trim back in the correct envelope. This is how HTC simulates the amount of pull or stick force that is required to move the control surface at a given airspeed (it's a little more complicated than the way I've explained it though). The perception of using the trim to help get 'over the top' is just that, a perception. All you actually are doing is using a slower, more precise way to input elevator defection to carry you over the top with out stalling. If you didn't touch the trim and just used stick you would get the same result(providing you have a good precise stick and stick settings to match and a steady hand).
As far as the G effects Tac, you didn't say wether you were pulling the same amount of G's during the turn, just speed and "force on stick". I'm sure you weren't. If you look down you will see the they are much higher in the turn pulling the same amount of stick in the P51. Now if you pulled the same amount of G's in both a/c at the same speed you would find the P51 turning a wider circle than the Zeke at that airspeed and same G force. The same amount(distance of travel) of stick input is gonna give you different results in each a/c at the same airspeed and that's all due to the design, and current trim state of a/c(because that is how HTC models stick force). Stick deflection has nothing to do with G force effect directly speaking. Pull the same amount of deflection at low speed and you don't get the same G forces. Airspeed, a/c weight, and other a/c design factors affect G forces felt while flying.
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