Well, we do agree on some points. However, the gist of what you have been saying appears (in numerous instances) to be that don't care about the outcome aren't worthy opponents. Is that not what you said in your first post of this thread (quoted above)?
The gist would be that anyone who doesn't care enough about winning (the fight, not the war) to try his/her best to beat me isn't going to give me what I would consider to be a great fight. Competing by itself isn't enough for me. I need to do my best to beat someone who's doing their best to beat me to consider it a "great fight". Both of us giving our "A" game.
IMO, the statement "I don't care if I win or not" gives me the impression that they're not even planning to try their hardest. As in, "I don't really care, so I wasn't really trying- after all, it's just a stupid cartoon plane." I don't have any contact with the opponent, and am not able to read his face, body language, tone of voice, etc, to judge his level of intensity or effort. Often, all I have to go on is text. "I'm going to do my best, regardless of the final outcome" doesn't carry the same message as "I don't care if I win or lose" (IMO). The "I don't care" implies a lack of interest, at least in my eyes. Hence, I would consider the fight diminished, even if he indeed tried his hardest, because the impression that his text (which is all I have to go on...)gives me is a lack of interest (boredom). It would be like winning a chess match against an opponent who was pre-occupied with the football game on TV, causing me to believe his head really wasn't in the chess game. The game would be diminished in my eyes, at least compared to a game where we both gave our best, undistracted, intense effort. A win wouldn't mean much to me in the first instance, where I could possibly lose in the second instance and still feel like it was a great match.
Does that make sense? An example where the reward is measured by the effort given, rather than the result?
When I see "I don't care if I win or lose" I'm immediately thinking along the lines of my opponent being more interested in the football game. Or even that the next thing I can expect is "You beat me, but it doesn't matter, because I wasn't trying that hard" or "I let you beat me", or "I was drunk, that's why you beat me". Believing that my opponent "doesn't really care" diminishes the fight for me. Can you see why?
MtnMan