So just ommit the gears from the modeling.. What else would anyone rip off to gain an advantage? Everything else is essential.
I'm willing to bet that it does have a noticeable effect, like in the 262 example. Try it out for yourself, break one wingtip, settle into level flight, then roll to the side of the missing wingtip. The aerodynamics are there, but the weight reading is the same.
Even if the weight is relatively small, it would be exactly where there's an aerodynamic "hole", and here's the sticking point, meaning that you've got some weight out there beyond the aerodynamic absence of wing area.
That's flat out wrong, if I may say so, with all due respect, etc

As for grief.. They could just give each breakable part an average weight. That would already be a good enough stop-gap solution to last for a long time. Till someone comes up with accurate documentation of each part's weight, at least.
OOps, and there you have HT saying that the aerodynamic absence of a wing's portion isn't a good enough reason to also model the ghost weight of that wing. Grats Murdr.
I think tail parts missing when you've already lost control of the plane are not worth doing.. But an aerodynamicaly missing wingtip which still weighs as much as it did whole, isn't negligible detail IMO. The buck stops at HT though.