It is a touchy topic of conversation, but not necessarily racist. It takes a hell of a lot of self discipline to understand that life isn't fair and that nothing is guaranteed. It is not easy to understand this and takes many years. Basically it is an individual matter and cannot be applied to a race. Any individual, no matter their race, who does not come to this realization through time, does so at their own risk. Reality of life.
Thinking people grow weary of complainers, and with good reason. Everyone has problems. Everyone complains and it might be good to vent, but if it becomes too much, do not expect an eager audience. Most people on these forums are honest. If anything, it could open honest discussion about how to improve race relations, or relations with anyone, and I believe the most important of these is the respect from earning one's own way. This invariably involves struggle and hardship.
Les