First off Valerio you need to understand this is a MAN's game. Its not aimed at 12 - 15 yr old boys. Average age is probably mid to high 30's. With many of us 20 years or more older than that. As was said above many of us have seen it all before time after time.
The only way you can get respect here, is to EARN it, slowly, carefully. And you do that by stepping up and acting more mature than you really are. Most of the younger players have all learned this lession already.
Look at wes14 for example, he's on the path. Think 3 times before you open your mouth once.
If in doubt, search.
If you need help, its out there available. However, first you need to be acting mature enough to get it.
This means following all the rules of the TA. If your causing problems in the TA your not likely going to get much help from the trainers. So the attitude has to change first.
Pick any really good leading man from hollywood, and see how it does it.
Indiana Jones is a good example.
A Doesn't whine when things go bad, and he doesn't let it stop him.
B Does more than his share of the dirty work.
C Don't announce what your "going to do" as chances are something will go wrong. Be conservative!
D In fact don't announce anything. The game does it for you, in landing kills or taking fields.
E Listens to everything everyone has to say, THINKS about it. Then decides what he's going to do with a minimum of fuss. And he goes out and DOES it, then and only then does he stop to bask in the glory a bit.
So start out "playing the part" of a man, pick a good man, a solid well respected one as a guide.
Eventually you will find that you are no longer playing the part. That you have in fact become a man.
And there is so much more to being a man than that which swings in his pants. That in fact is the least of it all.
So give that a try, give reading some of those web sitghts another try.
Come give the TA another try with a different attitude.
Expect that it will take time, Aces High is a journey, one that may last you for many many years.
Many of us have been here since 99, or 2000 and we are still learning. So be patient, be conservative, be polite, be here for the long haul. Or be another flash in the pan thats here today and gone tomorrow.