Valdals,
The thing is, most people (especially on the forum) simply don't care. Some of us are sane and play in the main arenas for what they were made for, aerial combat not the land-grab game. So, when you ask for help, and especially start ranting, most will just squelch you and not pay attention. Nobody cares about the 'brave sacrifices' you made defending a piece of internet real estate. When 'OMG SOMEONE THE NITS ARE ATTACKING A#' comes over the text buffer, a small amount of players may come to your aid, but most will simply continue minding their own business. It's quite simply more fun for most to continue shooting down enemy aircraft than to get worked up over a war that doesn't mean anything in the first place. You literally get nothing for winning the war beside a sortie's worth of perk points. And, thus, again, no one cares.