Some of us were getting our PPLs back in the '80s..
If you're as old as you say you are then why are you having such a hard time following the advice being offered you?
The game isn't broken! Some of these folk were playing it's predecessor for $6/hour plus long distance (even international

) phone charges so I do not think dedication is a problem in this community.
The one thing that I find hard to swallow is this!
AFJROTC in 1972
How in the hell do get by having such poor flight planning and SA? As far as I'm concerned you have just invalidated all of your excuses.