Oh JB88, now there are many things that can be said and done in your situation. Although you may be finding it hard to cope with such stresses the easiest approach to this is lay it all out there. The fact that you have given her an opportunity like this is harmful to your well being the problem is you have allowed the dictation to start far too early in this relationship....see below
What she would like to do ....pffft, Man up, tell her how it is and what she's gonna do

signed
scrotuuumm
Your friendly relationship advisor