Maybe more folks should be respecting the space between yourself and your opponent, rather than saying "f*** it" while holding down the trigger and kinda half hoping you dont collide.
The trouble with both HOs (12 to 12 real ones), and collisions is the fact we know we only pay a penalty in "game terms", nobody really dies, or gets captured, or has to bail out over the ocean with little chance of rescue, so we act like its not that big a deal (which I guess....it isnt).
Moral of the story, if you think your too close, you are, if you want to press the attack on a a/c that is only 20 feet away, scissoring hard, you are asking for trouble, wether the collision model is "100 percent" fair, or not.