i got a silly question for you, why don't you start a squad that will fit your expectations of a squad.
that is what Jetsom and i did with the Suicide Dweebz. we wanted a lose fitting free spirited type of squad that didn't adhere to more than just a couple of rules or standards of play.
our rules are easy;
1 Don't Vulch
2 Fly what you want, any plane gv or boat that tickles your fancy
3 Blood or Bullets (do not RTB or run from the fight until you are out of one or the other)
4 Find the fun fight (no loyalty to country necessary)
5 Wingman is a very lose term, if your both there keep your squaddies 6.
6 if your squad is flying for a different country than you currently are, feel free to shoot them down

7 flying a Mission is leaving the runway together, after that do as you want.
8 when switching countries NEVER divulge the plans, secrets, mission information or location of those in the country you just left to the country you just joined. (no spying)
9 Avoid being apart of the horde or a pickfest
10 FIND THE FUN FIGHT AND THE FUN IN THE FIGHT
Now i know this is not the type of squad that appeals to most players, but it is our version of fun.
Create your own squad that suits your wants and desires, and you ll see that those of like mind will migrate towards you.
Good Luck and Happy Hunting
FLOTSOM