So there's something wrong with trying to be friendly with everyone? That's the most immature thing ever. This is supposed to be a fun hobby, not some kind of petty rivalry.
Here I am pissing all over my neighbors prized tulips but I've got my friendly smiley face on and I say how do you do neighbor, lovely day isn't!
It's ok, we all want to piss on someone's tulips at some stage.
Dutch bastiges.