Shuffler, for the licence was a 357 for the revolver, and some 9mm for the semi. In the military I had a Berreta 9mm since I was an officer.
Hammer, good point about the girls. I did a try out with my 14 year old daughter, we went to shoot the little 22 Ruger, some 9mm, a glock 45 and the Springfield 1911. She did very well with the 45, she wasn't untimidated by the recoil at all, and liked the skiny grip of it as well as how the gun sits due to the beaver tail. Even if heavier, she liked the equilibrium due to the 5" barrel. I love this gun for the same reason, always felt great despite the size. My wife hasn't tried it yet, but she's a massage therapist and a work out freack, I'm not worried. We are planing on going to the range at least once a month, I'm pretty confident they'll remember the cocking part. As money permit I think you have a good point, might end up with some type of revolver under the pilow.
Maverick, good stuff there, I'll keep that in mind. I'm very comfortable shooting any size semi, never really practice with revolvers such 38s 357s 44s. I don't like light guns either. Anyway, as a concealed for a night out safety, I really doubt I'll engage myself in some kind of long range movie shoot out. I really hope that 'll be able to walk my way out of any bad spot as I always did, if I have to pull my gun out chances are that it's the last ressort and "Mister scary" will be right in front of me, where you can't miss. I'm not a police officer that might have to go for trouble and doing so might expect more from their firearm, I just need to "go away".