I am working on the system now. Everything arrived in short order. I will let you guys know how it turned out.
I went with the 6 gig memory thinking that in the future I might upgrade the OS, but for now I am just using XP.
The exact MB I bought
GIGABYTE GA-EP45T-UD3P supports DDR3 memory.
If I recall this is TriChannel Memory. This memory in its own settings on the chips, looks to the CPU rather then the NB for its control. So the NB is gonna be taking to the memory and the memory is gonna say something like "your a stranger, I don't know you, go away before I tell my mommy your a bad chipset". In other words, I would call Gigabyte and the memory maker and tell then what your intending, using DDR3 Tri Channel on a vinella DDR3 board. If I am thinking right this will last 90 days or less before MB issues, Memory issues. If it is OCZ memory it will record the highest voltage and store it on the chip. If the voltage is over 1.7 your warranty is kaput, not so sure about the BIOS on the GB MB, but if it has a similar storage that warranty is gone too. My buc two fifty input