Thanks, Shifty.
Fortunately I am employed, but I am also running a deficiet. California is just too expensive I am afraid. My rent on a one bedroom apartment is $1250/month and the mortgage I pay on my mom's house is $610/month (+taxes twice a year) and if we ever want to be able to buy our own house, well, it won't be one of the $600,000 "starter" houses here. My wife is looking in Austin and has had no luck after four months. I have been looking too, but it is hard to do so from California.
Money and time are running out though and I am not sure what to do.