Any man that would call another man names like that, either behind his back or protected by Internet anonymity/hundreds of miles, is a coward of the douchiest sort. Anyway thats my code. Look into a guys eyes if your going to bad mouth him or be branded a sissy.
And I was raised like that. Most men my age here were. This was before the electronic revolution and before boys were expected to get in touch with their inner-feminine. Back then you talked like that about another guy odds were you were going to have to fight. There was no calling the cops, or your parents. Even the teachers then would tell you "ya had it coming".
We get them calling 911 all the time, screeching into their blackberrys, when they are out at a bar or ball game and get trimmed after opening their big mouth, "most times to woman". When the squad pulls up you should hear them yammer and bleat that they were beat up and they want to sign complaints. And usually they start talking smack again when enough uniforms are there to protect them.
This game involves competition. In any encounter between two or more competitors there can be stress and high emotion.
Yeah, gee. Real stressful competition.

Sitting at your desktop, in your Jam-Jams, yanking on your little plastic joystick...

Thats some real serious, stressful stuff. Especially when your little cartoon airplane goes down and your rank goes from 451 to 453. Boy, I'm shaking from the stress.

Anyone can get caught up in the game and get a little excited. Its happened to me and part of what makes for a great game. Ive felt anger too when a check 6 didn't come my way, "tho within seconds I reminded myself its only a silly computer game".
But a few of these characters?? Why would anyone 1/2 decent even enable them by making exuses for them. If I was a parent, with a kid online when this fool went off? I'd be pretty mad about it.