Harassed my wife and I(and our kids) at grocery store....

[Anodizer]

We like to shop at Wild Oats (mainly for fish since they have a great selection) from time to time.. 
In all honestly, my opinion of gays is that as long as they keep to themselves and not try to push their
agenda on my family and I, I'm cool with it..  However, my stance on this has changed since our experience
yesterday evening..  Now that I've had some time to think about it, I'm royally pissed off..

Early yesterday evening, myself, my wife, and our 2 boys (1 and 4) were shopping there(Wild Oats)..
We strolled passed to guys holding hands..  Whatever..  That stuff doesn't phase me anymore..
Suddenly I hear these two guys start staring at us and then giggling like two little school girls in grade 1..
Then I hear the word "breeder" come from one of their mouths....  So, I go up to the guy and ask him what he said...
He starts to put on his "Diva" attitude and tells me "Yeah honey...You guys are breeders..."  So, I ask what's it mean and
is it meant to be offensive...?  He tells me it means that people such as my wife and myself are what are destroying
society as well as the Earth by having so many children..  So, I answer back with:
"well, friend....if there weren't breeders, there wouldn't be any of you around to admire each other..  so, yeah, maybe we
should ban breeders for awhile so no more of you are made...."   

I'm sure he was expecting a completely different response or possibly a physical confrontation..
Anyone else experience anything like this???? 

[Rich46yo]

Nope but your right. Why dislike only two people when you can "hate millions".

The same applies to Blacks, browns, whites, Asians, males, females, and members of every religious order.

Dont just hate or dislike the actual person. Be more economical and hate em by the million.

Baaaa. Ive worked around Gays for 25 years. As a whole they are law abiding, hard working, and cause very little problems for the Police.

Who is sleeping with who aint my business.

We like to shop at Wild Oats (mainly for fish since they have a great selection) from time to time.. 
In all honestly, my opinion of gays is that as long as they keep to themselves and not try to push their
agenda on my family and I, I'm cool with it..  However, my stance on this has changed since our experience
yesterday evening..  Now that I've had some time to think about it, I'm royally pissed off..

Early yesterday evening, myself, my wife, and our 2 boys (1 and 4) were shopping there(Wild Oats)..
We strolled passed to guys holding hands..  Whatever..  That stuff doesn't phase me anymore..
Suddenly I hear these two guys start staring at us and then giggling like two little school girls in grade 1..
Then I hear the word "breeder" come from one of their mouths....  So, I go up to the guy and ask him what he said...
He starts to put on his "Diva" attitude and tells me "Yeah honey...You guys are breeders..."  So, I ask what's it mean and
is it meant to be offensive...?  He tells me it means that people such as my wife and myself are what are destroying
society as well as the Earth by having so many children..  So, I answer back with:
"well, friend....if there weren't breeders, there wouldn't be any of you around to admire each other..  so, yeah, maybe we
should ban breeders for awhile so no more of you are made...."   

I'm sure he was expecting a completely different response or possibly a physical confrontation..
Anyone else experience anything like this???? 

[ghostdancer]

Yes, I had an experience like that several years ago down on Lincoln Road (area of Miami). Got called Breeders and such. Basically just goes to show that doesn't matter who you are or how much you claimed to be oppressed or discriminated against that parts of your group to will do it others.

[Curval]

I had a similar conversation with two absolutely straight single guys (and one of their girlfriend's) at lunch a few years back.

The three of them kept yammering on and on about how selfish I was because I had a child and my wife was pregnant with our second.  "Breeders" and "over population of the planet" were the main reasons cited.

The interesting part of that is that one of the guys is now expecting his second child (his was the girlfriend who was at the lunch...and who is still childless...which is suprising since she sleeps around ALOT (just got divorced because of that).  The other guy's wife (he married after the lunch) just had their first baby.

Good response to the gay guys though.

[Anodizer]

Nope but your right. Why dislike only two people when you can "hate millions".

The same applies to Blacks, browns, whites, Asians, males, females, and members of every religious order.

Dont just hate or dislike the actual person. Be more economical and hate em by the million.

Baaaa. Ive worked around Gays for 25 years. As a whole they are law abiding, hard working, and cause very little problems for the Police.

Who is sleeping with who aint my business.

I kind of see things the same way...  Gays don't bug me...  They keep their houses and neighborhoods nice/clean/safe.. 
But this comment from these two idiots set me off a bit..  Especially when it was meant for us to hear as opposed to
kept between themselves.. 

I've done a bit of research on this subject and found another weird term..  "Millitant Homosexuals".. 
Apparently they have contempt for heteros especially if they have children.....??   

[Furball]

Shoulda just told them that with their inability to reproduce, Darwin had selected their type for extinction.  Survival of the fittest and all that.

[SFRT - Frenchy]

Tell em about it, I live in Salt Lake City, there's breeders everywhere here 

What bugs me is breeding if you can't properly support your kids. If you are able to financially support them, as well as provide proper attention, love and education to each, then it's cool with me.

[Rich46yo]

Any group, or what would be called a group, is going to have their fair share of bad acts. Your original post kinda smeared of lumping all gay people together.

Honestly I dont know why anyone would hate any kind of group. I'm glad your not one Anadizer but there are plenty out there. Just ignore them man. Even their so called "contempt" is most likely of themselves that they direct at others.

[Regular]

I have a name i could have called them back!

[68Wooley]

OK - the two guys in the OP were prats. That's far from being a gay-only trait.

That said, I have no kids and used to get quite annoyed at being taxed for schools etc and watching colleagues at work use their kids as an excuse for working half the hours us without kids work. However, here's the reality - its those kids that are going to be paying for medicare etc when we're all retired and - to be honest we probably need more of them to support all of us.

[Yeager]

Shoulda just told them that with their inability to reproduce, Darwin had selected their type for extinction.  Survival of the fittest and all that.

There is a lot of truth to that.

[straffo]

Shoulda just told them that with their inability to reproduce, Darwin had selected their type for extinction.  Survival of the fittest and all that.

giving the amount of über cretin produced by heterosexual ... I wonder why we can't have hermaphroditism
(in this case I'll make love with someone I truly love yummy !)

[redwing7]

giving the amount of über cretin produced by heterosexual ... I wonder why we can't have hermaphroditism
(in this case I'll make love with someone I truly love yummy !)

That would solve all the dating problems.........but dam I would feel ackward turning myself down, I'm sure I'd run into myself sooner or later and have to make up some story........Oh well, I guess even that would have it's own set of problems...

[Furball]

giving the amount of über cretin produced by heterosexual ... I wonder why we can't have hermaphroditism
(in this case I'll make love with someone I truly love yummy !)

haha that is just plain wrong 

[Roundeye]

We like to shop at Wild Oats (mainly for fish since they have a great selection) from time to time.. 
In all honestly, my opinion of gays is that as long as they keep to themselves and not try to push their
agenda on my family and I, I'm cool with it..  However, my stance on this has changed since our experience
yesterday evening..  Now that I've had some time to think about it, I'm royally pissed off..

Early yesterday evening, myself, my wife, and our 2 boys (1 and 4) were shopping there(Wild Oats)..
We strolled passed to guys holding hands..  Whatever..  That stuff doesn't phase me anymore..
Suddenly I hear these two guys start staring at us and then giggling like two little school girls in grade 1..
Then I hear the word "breeder" come from one of their mouths....  So, I go up to the guy and ask him what he said...
He starts to put on his "Diva" attitude and tells me "Yeah honey...You guys are breeders..."  So, I ask what's it mean and
is it meant to be offensive...?  He tells me it means that people such as my wife and myself are what are destroying
society as well as the Earth by having so many children..  So, I answer back with:
"well, friend....if there weren't breeders, there wouldn't be any of you around to admire each other..  so, yeah, maybe we
should ban breeders for awhile so no more of you are made...."   

I'm sure he was expecting a completely different response or possibly a physical confrontation..
Anyone else experience anything like this???? 

Idiots.

The primary purpose of any living thing on this planet is to continue it's species.  People, animals, fish, plants, trees...whatever.  The sole purpose is to procreate and continue.  Dang straight I'm a breeder and proud of it.  What have those guys accomplished for the human species?


The silver lining to this gray cloud is that each gay male is one less competitor for an available female.

I, like yourself, do not have a problem with them unless they say or do something stupid.  Then its time to fire back like you did or give em a good beat down.