I have mine set tot he text buffer as well, but I would like to see the join feature by INVITE only. The person who is upping the plane or GV should have the option of asking if someone wants to join him, but not the other way around.
If someone wants to join, they should just ask. If we want them in our plane, we will then invite them. Seems much more civil that being bombarded with join requests from someone we have never even spoken with.
Or, if not that... then an option to DISABLE join requests. The requester would get a message saying "AKP is not accepting Join requests at this time"... or something like that.
Dont get me wrong.... I dont mind taking people up as gunners if 1) I know them and 2) they are polite about it... but some people are just rude.