Regurge, try the following with 190D9 at different speeds (200, 300, 400 mph) at 10k and record the flight:
1 - With trim centered, pull back the stick until you stall the plane.
2 - With trim centered, push the stick until you invert the plane looking in the opposite way.
3 - With trim fully nose up, pull back the stick until you stall the plane.
4 - With trim fully nose up, push the stick until you invert the plane looking in the opposite way.
5 - With trim fully nose down, pull back the stick until you stall the plane.
6 - With trim fully nose down, push the stick until you invert the plane looking in the opposite way.
Now go to the film viewer and check the effect of the different moves, and you will notice how dependet are control effectiveness on trim possitions.
You can repeat the test with a Typh, you will notice that elevator trim is almost unnecesary to obtain fully elevator response at almost any speed.
And my joy setup is common for every plane, and shows my stick perfectly centered and reaching the limits without spikes.
About your comment of planes reaching black out or stalls at any speed, the point is not only being able or not to reach these limits, but also the time needed to reach them.