Stealth what they are trying to say, is that if you wish to be taken seriously, you seriously need to learn how to communicate. People see stuff like your last post, will instantly put you on the "ignore this bs, another kid who can't spell, create a sentence, or use punctuation or good grammar" list. In short, they'll smack you around because you can't even communicate what your trying to say.
Use Firefox for your web browser, has built in spell checker, learn how to use it.
Pay attention to both what your trying to say, and how your saying it.
When in doubt, google it, or use a dictionary. Both are your friend.
As to your wish, yes I too wish that we could take command of a destroyer, separate it from the fleet, attack enemy carriers with its torpedo's and guns. Someday perhaps.
Its kind of a double edged sword, act like a punk kid that can't talk, type, or write a coherent sentence and you'll be treated as such. However if you act like a mature responsible person with clear easy to understand posts, you'll be treated in most cases like an adult. At least as an equal, who might have something to say worth listening to.
Its up to you.