Don't cheat on your wife........

[oakranger]

.....or this could be you.   

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPGEBbfTX-c

[gyrene81]

This one is better:

Cheating Hubby Beatdown

[oakranger]

LOL, it made the "major breaking news".

[Anodizer]

.....or this could be you.   

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPGEBbfTX-c

Not that I condone infidelity....
But, wow....  What a spineless tool...lol  Only a sweetheart with no stones would agree to this..
"Please honey!  I'll do anything if you take me back!!"

C'mon moron..  You made your choice, now live with it and back out quietly....

[DaveJ]

Not that I condone infidelity....
But, wow....  What a spineless tool...lol  Only a sweetheart with no stones would agree to this..
"Please honey!  I'll do anything if you take me back!!"

C'mon moron..  You made your choice, now live with it and back out quietly....

Ah, but it takes a little bit of stones to go out there and have that sign on you.

[gyrene81]

I think it takes bigger stones to follow through with something that humiliating...too many other fish in the bucket for me to go through that, unless I'm rich and it's a community property state.

[Anodizer]

It's a b*tch move..  For the rest of his life, this dude will always live under "her" heal and she will always remind him of his infidelity(even 20 years down the road)....
Are you kidding me????  Takes no stones whatsoever to do this..  Only fearful submission on his part probably under some kind of duress from his wife's family(brother threatening him or something probably)..  No guy worth his balls would ever do this....  Then again, no guy worth his balls would cheat on his wife in the first place....

Anyhow, I'd like to know HOW he cheated, anway?  Intercourse?  Fellatio?  Or (gods forbid) kissing?  Many women consider trivial things like flirtation as cheating.... 
Take it like a man: get divorced, pay child support(if kids are involved) and move on...

9/10 times, once someone cheats in a relationship, it's as good as over....  That animosity and distrust is always there no matter what you do.. 

[Mark Luper]

Not that I condone infidelity....
But, wow....  What a spineless tool...lol  Only a sweetheart with no stones would agree to this..
"Please honey!  I'll do anything if you take me back!!"

C'mon moron..  You made your choice, now live with it and back out quietly....

My take on this:

The guy really loves his wife but he screwed up for a quickie. The other scenario may be he was set up and didn't actually cheat on his wife.

Either way, I see a person who is really in love with his partner and is willing to do whatever it takes to keep the marriiage going.

I understand that. I love my wife enough that I would be willing to do what he did if it meant we could keep the marriage intact.

There is going to be a loss of trust because of what happened to cause this and it will be years before it will not be the first thing out of his wife's mouth when they have an argument. If he really loves her he will put up with it because she is what matters most to him.

The guy was a moron for doing what he did, not for trying to make up and keep the marriage intact.

Word

Mark

[Stixx]

It's a b*tch move..  For the rest of his life, this dude will always live under "her" heal and she will always remind him of his infidelity(even 20 years down the road)....
Are you kidding me????  Takes no stones whatsoever to do this..  Only fearful submission on his part probably under some kind of duress from his wife's family(brother threatening him or something probably)..  No guy worth his balls would ever do this....  Then again, no guy worth his balls would cheat on his wife in the first place....

Anyhow, I'd like to know HOW he cheated, anway?  Intercourse?  Fellatio?  Or (gods forbid) kissing?  Many women consider trivial things like flirtation as cheating.... 
Take it like a man: get divorced, pay child support(if kids are involved) and move on...

9/10 times, once someone cheats in a relationship, it's as good as over....  That animosity and distrust is always there no matter what you do.. 

+1

[gyrene81]

No guy worth his balls would ever do this....  Then again, no guy worth his balls would cheat on his wife in the first place....

Hold on there partner. There are a lot of reasons people go outside the marriage for sexual gratification. Aside from having the morals of a dog (guilty).
Only those living in the fantasy idyllic world of "perfect marriage" don't consider the issues that could push one partner or the other to looking outside the marriage. Unless you've walked in that guys shoes, don't be so quick to judge his actions.

[Stixx]

Hold on there partner. There are a lot of reasons people go outside the marriage for sexual gratification. Aside from having the morals of a dog (guilty).
Only those living in the fantasy idyllic world of "perfect marriage" don't consider the issues that could push one partner or the other to looking outside the marriage. Unless you've walked in that guys shoes, don't be so quick to judge his actions.

Sorry gyrene, but there is no excuse, when you stand up and say 'Till death do us part,' that doesn't mean till you get bored or your partner ain't interesting anymore, or whatever reason. When you marry someone you make a promise to that person. Period end of discussion.

[Anodizer]

Hold on there partner. There are a lot of reasons people go outside the marriage for sexual gratification. Aside from having the morals of a dog (guilty).
Only those living in the fantasy idyllic world of "perfect marriage" don't consider the issues that could push one partner or the other to looking outside the marriage. Unless you've walked in that guys shoes, don't be so quick to judge his actions.

There's only one reason anyone would go outside of their marriage for sexual gratification: self-interest
There's only one reason for infidelity: self-interest(on one or both partners)

I was going to say selfishness but I didn't want to sound like a fundamentalist preacher who uses words like obedience..
I despise that word...  Obedience is for dogs.....

[DMBEAR]

Moral High Horse Alert

[uptown]

Did my wife put you up to this!? 

[RipChord929]

I'm gettin a good laugh out of this thread!!!

Just wondering what the marriage history is for you guys!!!!
As in, how many times? And how many years?

It says alot about a persons life experience!!!

RC