Lynx,
I've been shot down by you many times. While I'm sad to hear you're leaving before I had a chance to get you at least once, my selfishness is tempered by empathy I feel for your personal struggle. Funny, how you didn't make it sound like a struggle.
I'll say a prayer for you and the wife and family that love you, that the work of God be done through those that will care for you, for you and those who love you.
Good luck and God speed.
Vinkman