That certainly clashes with the kamikaze mentality....
Was it the idea of allowing the enemy to kill you verses taking your own life for your country?
It doesn't since being a kamikaze was never just about 'taking your own life for your country'. The majority of those that served as kamikaze pilots believed that their sacrifice would protect their families and their country from destruction by forcing such losses on the Allies that we would be forced to make concessions.
The attitude of the Japanese pilots towards head on attacks was that it was not considered to be honorable. Not saying that they never engaged in head on attacks but at least with the Japanese pilots, it was not considered a favorable or honorable tactic.
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