Disabling trim? Why?
Trim in AH is not the same as trim in the real plane. Trim in AH is minute inputs to the control surfaces themselves, NOT to their trim tabs. You see the stick move and the ailerons deflect when you trim your ailerons.
In real life there is no spring center, as with on our joysticks. You see you're rolling just a hair, deflect it a faction of an inch the other way, and viola, that's your new "center" point.
Stoney, I don't know personally what you went through with that rudder, but on 109s specifically, the pilots trained, kept in great shape (you read how many exercised in the down times to keep physically fit to pull more Gs, etc), and they were trained, and flew extensively, on these planes. I think they probably had a much easier time keeping their rudder centered than the average guy coming in from P51s or whatever (i.e. a US pilot testing captured LW gear).