didn't know people hated me so much.

I don't think anyone actually hates you. I think the proper word would be no one "Respects" you. When you do the things you have done, seem to not be able to listen to more experanced players advice, make false statements about others to complete sides, yes your going to get the "cold shoulder". Actually what I think most, is the attention given to this post is what you were seeking.
People come and go from this game daily for what ever reason, the people that stay, stay for a reason, they like the game, the hunt, the kill, the friends made... what ever it maybe. When someone comes to the "playing field" that changes the norm of play, yes we do not mind seeing them go.
Ah the Drama of it all.
TD