Yes, NOE's have a place in the game, NO they do NOT promote fighting. The whole idea of an NOE is to sneak in and steal a base as fast as you can WITH OUT being caught. Why as fast as you can? Because you are low and heavy in most cases, a very bad way to start a fight.
On the other hand, an NOE can be used to pull the defense apart at a heavily defended base by trying to sneak an adjacent base at the SAME TIME as continuing to attack the main base.
30 people on an NOE is just stupid, half the people in the mission won't even get a chance to drop their bombs..... WOW that must be fun ! Why not split that force and hit 2 bases at the same time? Maybe 20 guys go in at 12k as a mission, while the other 10 go NOE to an adjacent base AT THE SAME TIME.
Most NOEs are made and run by the "less skilled" players. Hiding in their "horde" substitutes for their lack of skill in defending themselves. Maybe they can complete their mission BEFORE everyone get killed. If these people worked on learning how better to defend themselves in stead the game it self would become a much better game. Look at Lusche's post, less than 20% of the people flying can keep better than a kill per sortie.... I think that was what I read, it may have been k/d, either way it shows the lack of skill today.
Todays "goal" is the "capture". If more players leaned toward the "fun of the fight" they would learn more, bring the skill levels up increasing the fun of everyone. They run a mission and if they didn't get the capture they are failures. This NOT how you should be playing this game. Sure its fun to be part of a team and capture a base, win the war, but the fun....as I see it is the fight, the challenge, to get there. You take 10 guys, run an NOE and steal a base. The whole mission lasts 15 minutes, and you get the capture. WOW that was fun! Now you do the same mission, but 5 guys up to defend. Mission lasts 30-40 minutes and you have to come back at least once more, but you and your buddies beat back the defense and you capture the base. Wouldn't that be a lot more fun?
Don't be afraid of dieing.... you don't really die you know. As most of you are the lower skilled players the only way your going to get better is to go against some opposition. Learn from what happens on the missions, in your fights. Sure you are going to get shot down a lot, but you'll get better, everyone does. Challenge your selves. NOEs won't do that for you.