I find the 51 to be a great plane. I seem to have no problem out running spits, 109's and La5n's. I do not have to much time in them though, so I'll give it from the perspective of being in a 109.
First off, I have NEVER managed to outrun a 51 in a long chase. Now in a short chase, and while I still have more E than my target, I'll catch a 51. Also many times in a low alt turn fight, I have had 51's out turn my 109 even though I had 25% left (and no drop tanks). Its rare but it happens, I attribute it to me being in a low E state, because thats when it happens.
A common thing I see 51 pilots do, is get in a very tight sissors fight, then realize "this isnt gonna work", after that most 51 pilots seem to either try climbing, or doing a hard break turn. Neither of those work well against the 109. I think I have only passed a 51 once in a very steep dive. And even though I was going faster, he actually had control of his plane.
Also I have seen a 51 pilot flying it like the "runstang" it is, no one was able to touch him.
I cant say I've even fought you, nor do I know how good you are, maybe your just unlucky? Maybe your just bad at judging other people'e E states? Or maybe your control setup is messed up and you cant set your throttle to full? What you could do, is just fly a few other planes for a while, and see if you still have the same problem.
(BTW the P51 does seem a bit weak in climb, but not by too much)
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Maj. CCasey
Red Raiders
109 Pilot
Dweebfire killer
