What you guys ALL have to remember, is that a "cherry pick" on one side of the engagement, is just "good wingman tactics" or "drag and bag" on the other side.
It is all relative to which side of the fight your on.
Not necessarily fun for the guy who gets picked.
But if he was being worked by a wingpair, or getting dragged so someone else could bag him its his own poor SA that caused it.
Remember, if you just died, you made a mistake someplace!
Don't blame it on the other guy, figure out where you could have done it better.