I retired and spent the last half decade touring the US full time. While doing that I have also been with the Patriot Guard and rode on many of their missions both as funeral escort as well as welcome home and send offs. Lots of troops to shake hands, thank and express support for.
The wife and I have each had to deal with cancer and move on over that particular bump in the road. There are grand kids to spoil, fish to catch, hunting trips to go on and lots of this country yet to explore.
It works for me.