The relative speed is not 0 because the myth stated 'opposite rotation'. The myth is based on the false assumption that the plane cannot move because the acceleration is done by turning the wheels like in a regular automobile and hence plane allegedly cannot move if wheel spin is exactly matched at all times (like going to measure the engine power in a dyno except this one doesn't resist at all) or imagine trying to run on wet glass-surface ice - you'll just flap around not moving anywhere.
But this is not a problem because a) The plane does not generate or need any thrust using the wheels b) The maximum wheelspin would be double the regular takeoff speed, hardly a problem. c) plane still moves on conveyor belt despite belt rolling in opposite direction in accelerating motion exactly matching aeroplane speed in reverse, remember if plane is not moving, neither is conveyor belt. All motion is generated as counter motion of the plane itself d) when enough airspeed is reached the plane takes off normally.
Imagine having your car roll in a dyno that has zero resistance. You can spin the wheels all you want and it wont move since wheel speed is always matched in opposite. Push it with your hand gently and it will move despite of rotational speeds. Put 20 000lbs of thrust in it and it'll fly with no wings.