The point you guys are missing here is that it is PERCEPTION that is misleading you. Often you can misjudge what you see. And, not to put too fine a point on it, what your screen shows you is not necessarily the reality as judged by the FE.
Still, no matter if you can trust what you see or not ... a result of a plane being involved in a collision, by dint of ONE plane suffering from it, being ZERO damage? By definition completely unrealistic. Having a consistent result, whether or not that suffers from lag... that, I think is preferable.
I suppose there's no way to know both ways unless there's a controlled experiment... but I think those who think suddenly there'll be NO collisions happening, but lots of flythroughs... they're making as much of a guess as I am when I say I think there'll be MORE collisions and NO flythroughs.
Nobody is arguing that if what you SEE (not what the FE computes) is a collision, you won't take damage.
But I am definitely arguing that I've seen a miss and still had a wing come off. I've had planes warp backward into me and then float off with no damage. Any of you who say you've never seen that are simply lying.
Don't shoot the messenger, just argue your point.
Oh, and by the way... intentional rams DID occur, no matter what you may think about the wrongness or rightness of it. The Russians did it, the Germans did it, the Japanese certainly did it.