first off, spawn camping is here to stay....just learn to work around it.
secondly, i do believe one of the tank commanders main strategys was to lay in wait for an unwary enemy tanker to come into his guns range, and pop it.
What he said.......
Wanna go realistic? Re-read above quote.
Ever do any "real" tanking, yourself? It's not a boxing match where the opponents "duke it out" in the middle of a field.
It was/is all about (not a complete list)
1) Cover and concealment
2) Hull down positions
3) Hedgehog Defense
4) Fire and movement
5) Bound/Overwatch tactics
Other tactics such as Platoon fire (all tanks assaulting from different positions, but firing simultaneously) and platoon startup/shutdown (again simultaneously) as to hide their numbers so the enemy can't count how many attackers/defenders are there.
The tactics in the list are somewhat employable in AH2, but the last two items I mentioned are not as feasible due to lag, etc.
If you going for "real", how about instant repairs to your vehicle from supp that are dropped, turning down internal vehicle sounds to hear the other guy better or turning down graphic detail to see the enemy easier (just for starters)?
It's your choice, and it's not rocket science.....
1) Once you realize that a spawn is camped DON'T KEEP UPPING INTO A CAMPED SPAWN (although the camper always appreciated a pelt dispenser)
2) Get a bomb and blow them to smithereens (which will make you a bomb tard, especially if you couldn't break the camp by using a GV, yourself)
3) Get some buddies together and all spawn at the same time (the camper(s) can't shoot all of you at the same time)