Hmm I've only ripped my wings off one time, and that was the first day in a D7. Once you learn to fly and fight structural integrity of the aircraft isn't an issue, unless you have taken hits to the airframe.
exactly, you learn what the sounds are, youll know when youve pushed it to far once you do that (that creeking noise ya hear), just work your throttle, ive never seen planes where you are constantly working the throttle hard in dogfights, cutting that throttle really get that kite dancing, much more enjoyment than MA's