LOL tigger let's see u gave up smoking the wife left ya..and took the dog. Sorry bout ya loss..but I'm sure you miss the dog too.
So what's next?? You guve up drinking...then what do you need to work for???
Haha yes I found some incriminating text messages on her cell phone when it started vibrating as I was leaving for work one morning. Took her phone with me to work so I could look through it. Saw a bunch of stuff I didn't want to see. Needless to say she was gone by the time I got home. Took the dog but left the cats. Took the new(er) Ford Escape Hybrid, but also the car payments (and left my Harley). I miss the car but not the payments. I miss the Dog but not her so much... ESPECIALLY after I got a bogus restaining order a few weeks later LOL.
I found references in my credit report for Florida and Milwaukee but can not find her current location. Her family doesn't even know where she is (and were totally on my side so I don't think they would just say that, but anything is possible). In the meantime I have filed separation and if I have to file divorce by public notice I'll do it, but for now I'll wait and see if she pays for it. I don't think I'll run into too many hassles considering she has to have little or no money and I still have her phone (and text messages) and also emails... among other stuff from at least two other men with certain kinds of 'details'.
I will say though.. the restraining order was exactly what I needed to get past the situation. The bogus claims she made to get it filed and what she did in the first place... well it brought closure to the situation much faster than I would think could be considered 'normal' for something like this.
I probably do need to get going on a divorce, but the way I see it, if I'm going to have to pay for it, I'll make sure she ends up paying for it.
