An important point here: so as to explain how a smaller tab can move and maintain deflected a larger control surface.
Lets assume:
The force acting on the elevator is F.
The force generated by the tab is f.
F obviously much larger than f.The distance between F and a the pivot of the elevator is L.
The distance between f and the pivot of the elevator is l.
But L is smaller than l.So when we look at moments: FxL = fxl
So although the force generated by the tab is much smaller, the moment it creates is larger, and in a trimmed condition (be it level, nose up, nose down.....whichever) the two moments balance and the control surface remains deflected.
If the pilot wanted to move the elevator directly (i.e. via control column), he needs to apply force F, which maybe beyond his capability. But if he operates the tab, by applying a small force f, he can get the same surface deflection as if he had applied the larger force F on the controls. This is how trim may be able to hold a control surface deflected, even when the pilot cant.
I'll try and post a pic later to elaborate further.
[EDIT]
Found a simple one online. Ignore the balance tab bit.....although that also works on the same principle.