My answer is, if you want to furball, there are better arenas for that. Do not expect the war gamers to play around your game. If you only want to furball, and you only want to play in the Main Arenas, then you should be willing to accept, there is a point in time your type of game is going to be interrupted.
You, nor anyone else, has an exclusive to any arena.
Your answer is to disrupt thier game play, because they disrupted yours. Yeah, that is going to make everyone happy.