Derk.
Its how wolf cubs are raised, only there is no body language in the MA, no glares. Having an interest in Aircraft doesn't entitle children to be treated like adults.
So the society tries to rear you with the tools they have. The young wolves that get it, get treated better and the other wolf cubs can decide if they want that better treatment, or want to keep on like they are.
As to why, because, all cultures must socialize their members. If you are 14, you will be going through this in every facet of your life for the next few years.
Be sure, if you are still playing when you are 21, you will get it when a 12 year old starts piping off on 200. You cant glare at them, you can't shake your head at them, you cant do anything but squelch them or flame them. Me, I just squelch them, I have my own sons to raise.
You want real fun, thow a few Ehs in on vox, then you will get some ridicule